Somewhere between Au Naturel and Body Mods
This post is going to be a little different from some of my others, but it’s something I’ve been wanting to write about for a while.
I have felt for a long time that there is a very complicated set of pressures facing womxn, femmes, and people of all genders in our fitness and beauty industry but also within feminism and the anti-diet-culture movements. On one hand there is this pressure to look “perfect,” to look this specific way, muscular but not too muscular, thin but not too thin, natural but not too natural, done up but not too done up, etc. But there is also this pressure to finally listen to our bodies, to do what feels good and natural and stop fighting our instincts so much and to fight cultural norms all at the same time.
This all goes to say, that no matter what decisions you make, you may very well feel some sort of body anxiety about them at some point. You may feel that that you are too much or too little in some way, shape, or form, or someone may make you feel less than for the way you have chosen to take care of and present your body. This is all okay. It’s okay to feel confused about trying to live comfortably in your body after years of not accepting it in our toxic culture full of competing pressures. The main point is just to continually check in with yourself and ask these simple questions: Is this way that I am caring for my body for me? Does this way that I am caring for my body make me feel happy and fulfilled?